--- title: Find Yourself Yet? - LauraLaire.com description: You just may astonish yourself with what you are capable of, if you just moved towards what you know you should be doing. image: https://lauralaire.com/hubfs/Imported_Blog_Media/Blogs-4_29-1.jpg --- [![Laura Laire](https://lauralaire.com/hs-fs/hubfs/LauraLaire_October2025/images/download.webp?width=127&height=90&name=download.webp "Laura Laire")](https://lauralaire.com) [![Laura Laire](https://lauralaire.com/hs-fs/hubfs/LauraLaire_October2025/images/download.webp?width=127&height=90&name=download.webp "Laura Laire")](https://lauralaire.com) - [Home](https://lauralaire.com) - [Blog](https://lauralaire.com/blog) - [Courses](https://www.artofyou.com/) - [Coaching](https://www.artofyou.com/coaching) - [About](https://lauralaire.com/about-laura-laire) - [Contact](https://lauralaire.com/contact) - [Subscribe](https://lauralaire.com/subscribe) Search Search ![Blog Post Banner](https://lauralaire.com/hs-fs/hubfs/raw_assets/public/LauraLaire_October2025/images/blog_banner.jpg?width=2000&name=blog_banner.jpg "Blog Post Banner") ##### Find Yourself Yet? [![find yourself](https://lauralaire.com/hs-fs/hubfs/Imported_Blog_Media/Blogs-4_29-1.jpg?width=1200&height=628&name=Blogs-4_29-1.jpg)](https://lauralaire.com/hubfs/Imported_Blog_Media/Blogs-4_29-1.jpg) ### I think too often we get into the routine of: “I don’t have enough time…” “I don’t have enough money…” “I’m trying to…” “I’m going to…” “One of these days…” ### Instead of just becoming what we said we wanted to be.[![](https://lauralaire.com/hs-fs/hubfs/Imported_Blog_Media/inspirational-post-4_29-300x300.jpg?width=300&height=300&name=inspirational-post-4_29-300x300.jpg)](https://lauralaire.com/hubfs/Imported_Blog_Media/inspirational-post-4_29.jpg) If you want to become a writer, well then START writing a book. If you want to become a nonsmoker, then BE a nonsmoker. If you want to lose weight, BE a healthy weight. It all starts with a desire, but *goals* and *action* must meet. I think you just may astonish yourself with what you are capable of, if you just moved towards what you **know** you should be doing. ## We all have a purpose, a *destiny.* Whether you believe it or not, you know what that is. [You just have to do what makes YOU happy and brings joy into your life](https://lauralaire.com/author-of-your-story/). It doesn’t have to be attached to money or things. However people get in the habit of saying and feeling, for instance, you should become a “professional” because they make money; a gardener shouldn’t be your job, that should just be your hobby; you should go to school or else you won’t get a good paying job! Who says you won’t have success if you follow your bliss? When you follow your passion, abundance in all aspects of your life will be right where the joy is. Money doesn’t make people happy but happy people attract money since, I believe, it’s all connected. When you set out to accomplish all that you are capable of, you will have enough, whether it is money, or people, or self-satisfaction, to keep you happy. If happy is truly what you are after. I believe that is what God will ask us when we arrive: “Did you have a happy life? Did you love enough?” Where is your happy? Are you chasing it? I hope you find yourself by becoming what you’ve always intended one day. And that day starts now. 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